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    June 30

    142天

         从事态的发展到结束不过是142个昼夜。是累了、是烦了,是不再爱了。我曾以为我的前29年的人生失败的渡过,也曾以为29年后的人生我可以改变,因为我做了一般人不敢也不会做的事情。我更相信我的爱情已经随着前面那次冲击彻底的毁灭了。但是,现在奇迹的发生了,而且是EASY COME。没有之前的鲜花,昂贵礼物,烛光大餐,我想我是个虚荣的女人,需要这些奢侈品的问候。却恰恰的,做了我许多没想过,也意想不到的事情。可以不要鲜花,礼物,烛光晚餐,只是一点点的心灵相通。不要以为晚上看到北斗七星,或是看电影正好遇到1314,真的会一生一世。还有好多我们无法预料和无法面对,更无法改变的事实。因为我们是生在80年后的人类,因为我们脆弱,因为我们惰性,因为我们不像90后的非人类敢于挑战。SO EASY COME ,EASY GO。

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    KIKI Wuwrote:
    楼上的,写得透彻!顶一个!!!总也说,要让自己活得开心,那怎样才会开心呢?有时候,看到对方快乐,自己也会有成就感哦!要明确知道自己需要的是什么,对方快乐的闪光点是什么.这些都很重要哦.142天是因为没有打从心里相信彼此能坚持下去,所以才会数下来.问问看过来人,常会说,一眨眼一辈子就过去了.
    July 1
    枫 姜wrote:
    例子举反了。脑残族不会再有婚姻的概念。我们是最后一批需要婚姻来维系从小建立起来的人生观世界观的人。恰恰你需要学习60,70年代的人甚至是你的父辈对于人生的态度。不要去探究太多,不要太敏感,该来的总会来,该走的总会走。来了的,发自心底的好好珍惜而不是每次等失去后发表各式各样悲天悯人的感触;要走的,多挽留一次,而不是潇洒的对抗,华丽的转身,自私的冷战而导致一发不可收拾。80后确实注定悲哀,悲哀在太敏感,太矫情。而不是别的。142个昼夜只是惊鸿一瞥,无须感叹。假如你能做到1420个昼夜能始终如一,且没有太多负面的,消极的感慨,那确实会是不同的局面。Really love never go easy, so the same as it comes. 加油。
    June 30

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